Erotic Massage vs. Sexual Intercourse

Erotic massage, known in some cases as massages with happy endings, is a sexual service that is often geared toward the older crowd. It's a service that involves non-penetration. On BackPage.com you can find older men posting ads seeking erotic massage.

But does could anyone actually prefer erotic massage over sexual intercourse?
Not exactly,
but they both have their benefits and different qualities.

I had my first encounters with erotic massage in Latvia, the East European nation on the border of Russia and sandwiched in-between Estonia and Lithuania. Latvia is a beautiful country, and furthermore, prostitution is legalized and regulated. Brothels are illegal, but there are erotic massage parlors which are found working as legitimate businesses.....meaning, they are on google maps and they identify as erotic massage parlors.

Beautiful Country: City of Riga

Pros of Erotic Massage over Sexual Intercourse:

1. Relaxation.
It took me awhile to realize just how erotic massage works. If you are looking for ten minutes of sex and then getting back to your life, perhaps this is not the best. Again, it took awhile to appreciate.
Music is playing. Candles are lit. It starts with a back massage, then legs, then full body. Of course, each massage artist designs their own plan, and no two massages are ever the same.

2. The Orgasm
I love cumming. There is no easier way to put it. As a man, I really enjoy the orgasm. Erotic massage tends to give me a better orgasm. It slowly builds up the pleasure. Each minute gets more and more intense. Then, you can reach the strongest and longest-lasting cum shots of your life. The experienced massage artist will keep going until you are dry.

3. Aqua Therapy
This one is dead simple. Showers! At the beginning of erotic massage, they often ask you to take a shower to make you clean. Then, after one hour of rolling around in the sheets getting covered in massage oil and body lubricants, you take a second shower to clean off. It is such a good feeling when you pull yourself up and the sheets are soaked in sweat and oil. So between two showers, a relaxation massage, and an erotic massage. It feels amazing. Of course you can take a shower before and after sex if you want to make your date wait :P

4. It's Cheaper!*(See Below)
Big surprise this is on the list, but going to a massage parlor isn't free. Also, if you are reading this, perhaps you are wondering about paying escorts and the like. Yes, in Latvia erotic massage ranged from 40 Lats (Let's guess $80.00 usd) in a professional studio. Also, since the sale of sexual services is legalized in Latvia, there are many ads online advertising this service. The lowest I saw was 30 lats ($60 usd). Compare that with paying an escort for one hour which is typically no less than 100 Lats ($200 usd) plus extra charges for anal.

So $60 for a great sexual service is not so bad.

Now with all that being said, there are other reasons to love sexual intercourse. Just in case you can't think of any on your own :O

Latvia is Well Hung

Pros to Sexual Intercourse Over Erotic Massage

1. More intense sensation
2. Trying different positions.
3. Different types of oral and body sex (or tit fucking :P)
4. Desire

That list can go on, but one thing is certain it sure is more expensive.

*This is discussing paying for sex only in areas where it has been legalized. I will never pay for sexual services in an area where it is illegal.

Questions for You:

Have you ever had an erotic massage?
Have you ever paid for a traditional massage at a parlor?
Can you list any pros and cons to either sex or erotic massage not covered here?