In the previous post, I mentioned that I had been toying with the idea of writing a book on sex in China. I also mentioned that I am severely scatterbrained. Thus, in only a short while I have decided that there was another project that I thought I should begin first.
There is a YouTube channel called Essential Truth that has taken a lot of the old Jordan Peterson lectures from the University of Toronto(as well as other venues he has appeared at) and cut them up into a set of segments that are designed to educate men on how to deal with women...such as the one included in this post.
I confess, I have not watched them all, as there are so many, but I feel there is still something lacking in the video clips I have seen.
----To begin, as far as I know, Jordan Peterson does not teach guys how to get laid. Most of what he advises is on how to find a long term partner for marriage or at least long term relations. If I recall correctly, he has even stated that men who go to bars looking to get laid...and don't care which woman they go home with...are psychopaths.
On the one hand, I commend Essential Truth for providing some advice for men. I know I sure would have liked it when I had been 18,19, or 20.
Now, let's talk about Asian women. Let's not beat around the bush. How does a guy get laid? And how to approach Asian women.
Let's seperate Asian women into two groups.
1= Girls Native to East Asia 2 = Girls of East Asian Decent Living in Other Countries
With Group 1=
1) Forget About Confidence.
I am so sick of all these dating self-help people talking about confidence. It is almost as if they know no other words with three syllables. Even Beavis and Butthead are confident with their "Hey Baby," lines. It doesn't mean anything. Confidence will not get you laid. Furthermore, in Asia all of those cultural perceptions are different. You can believe that you are a God, and it will not necessarily get you laid. Asian girls are much more moody and self-interested than the stereotypes show. It's not about how you feel. It is about how they feel.
2) Smoothness and Rapport
The Platinum Guide to Dating....a now defunct web book..used to state that dating, hooking up, and seduction consists of a three part method. 1/3 Confidence . 1/3 Smoothness. 1/3 Building a Rapport with your target. We have already covered confidence and how that is not the answer, but Smoothness and Building a Rapport are good ideas for all people, no matter where they come from. Get rid of the awkward behavior. Be aware of your facial expressions and your body language. Say things that make her gently laugh, but do not appear too silly or blunt. Be smooth. Talk smoothly and try to create some sexual energy with her.
AND LAST but NOT LEAST
3) Numbers
What these Essential Truth videos do not tell you is dating is mostly about numbers. As a late teen and early 20 something. I remember many times sitting at home wondering why I couldn't find a date for the weekend...well, maybe it was because I wasn't asking anyone out.
The law of averages applies to dating. The more people you approach. The more success you will have. While in America or Europe, it might be very awkward to approach strangers and ask for their contact information. It is not really that weird in Asia. Many times if you just say Hello to a girl in an East Asian country and ask for her contact info, she might even give it to you just because she does not want to offend you...or more likely she doesn't want to appear awkward or look bad herself. I would hesitate trying this in Hong Kong or Macau as the natives there are quite standoffish. If you are approaching Filipinas or Indonesians in HK or Macau. Go for it.
When I first arrived in Beijing, I was advised from a blogpost similar to this one that dating in China was like.....say Hi, how are you? to 100 people. Get 50 replies. Converse with 20. Meet up with 3. Sleep with 1. Repeat.
I don't calculate my own messages that rigorously, but it is the same idea. In Asia, you have to use the numbers to your advantage. It does not matter what you say. It does not matter what you wear (although, cologne might help. Smell is important). It does not matter what you have in your bank account. It is about asking 30-40 people to come over to your apartment every single night, and yes, every single night. So if you invite 200-250 people to your apartment or hotel room every week, there is usually going to be at least 1-3 horny Asian girls that will come over. No guarantee, but from previous experience first hand and knowing guys that do this too, it is real. I know one guy who spends 4-5 hours every day talking to girls, getting new contacts and inviting people over. 4-5 hours every day, and he gets laid more than I do.....Time, Effort, Hard Work, Numbers.
Other sites to meet Asian girls:
Tantan, Tinder, Badoo, Fdating.com, DateinAsia.com, and Wechat People Nearby.
So Numbers, Numbers, Numbers. Use the internet and approach people on the street to build an enormous amount of contacts. Then, send out 200-250 invites a week to come and meet you. It doesn't even have to be in your apartment or hotel for the first time. You can invite them for a drink first or out to dinner....the important part is that you send you build your contacts and send out invites.
2= How to Date Asian Girls in North America and Europe.....
1. Have a Big Dick
2. Have a lot of Money
3. Spend it on them
4. Who really cares? If you want to have sex with Asian women...spend the summer in Asia: Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, maybe South China or Vietnam and use your free time wisely, and you should get laid.
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