The last touch was like a gift. The last touch was a gift indeed, a drop of passion from somewhere in the heart, a goodbye that left more than the first hello.
Where do the memories stay when the future has no place to go? Where does one go where they were the one to leave and walk away in the first place?
Someone who desire can walk the ground on the other side of the world, and through the powers of the future, you can still reside among each other's hearts.
I have been doing that exercise where you spend 15 minutes a day writing...writing about anything really. I have been writing this blog for about a week now after the 4 year hiatus, and overall, it has felt nice to get back to it. I was glad to come back to an abandoned blog and find that one of the posts from the archive has over 14,000 views....I am sure some of that is spam and computer bots, but there are some comments there, so that gives me the feeling that someone has actually read it, and I have at least been able to share something with the world.
Today has been a crazy day in my personal life. All kinds of possibilities, ideas, and emotions going up and down across the spectrum.
It has also made me question some things. I used to be a strong advocate that casual sex was not only moral, but in simple terms honest. Honesty through sexuality. If you deny your sexual feelings, it is not being honest with yourself, and it is difficult to progress as a human being when you are not honest with yourself. Moreover, it is very natural and human to seek out a sexual partner...not to mention society encourages it.
Is there anything immoral about casual sex? Well, I would say that there is a lot of potential for things to go wrong. Even still, in my heart I want to say that casual sex is not immoral. It is one of those issues where you want to find two people that want the same thing, and if both parties are fair and honest, it can be done without projecting destruction into the world. I guess you've met the young Hindu side of me. Karma. Dharma and Hari Ohm.
However, I guess I also want to be realistic, and I can totally understand why so many people...religious and secular advocate that casual sex is something bad and should not be performed by anyone. It sends you down a slippery slope.
For starters, there are often highs and lows associated with seeking many sexual partners. It can lead to intense uplifting emotional reactions and destructive and crashing ones as well.
Then, what happens when you have to seek out multiple partners. A lot of people will get offended and insulted at even the attempt of having sex with them. This can lead to both physical and emotional conflict.
Not to mention if a casual relationship occurs, one person might also want the relationship to continue into something more serious and long-lasting. If the other party does not agree, it can lead to genuine heartbreak. Let's be real. Even people who seek out casual sex partners also have feelings and also enjoy having a certain person in their life....someone can even make them grow out of it.
There are so many challenges in life. When does one ever choose the right pathway? I am still a believer in right and wrong, and that there is a form of goodness in the world. I would hope that people can have casual sex in a way that will only share kindness, joy, pleasure, passion, physicality, emotions, and of course orgasmic discharges (winning).
The real answer is...of course casual sex can be performed in a moral way. One of the more pressing issues associated with this is...if someone does not participate in sexual activity, voluntary or involuntary...they do not deserve to be ridiculed or insulted. There are enough problems in the world, and we don't need more people anchoring us down with destruction. Casual sex might have some ambiguous associations when it comes to morality.
But it is most certainly immoral to bring destruction into the world by making fun of someone for not having sex. As a male who has survive the teen years and early 20's, I will tell you that there are many people, both men and women that resort to insulting people for not being sexually active. This type of thinking is barbaric and has no place in the 21st Century.
Let's just try our best to share feelings of optimism, positivity, kindness, fairness, and experience.
Be honest. Sometimes direct and sometimes indirect. Create energy without destruction and share a message of passion with the world. Share love in ways that you could only imagine when you first see the magic in someone else's eyes.
I think this photo is from a YouTube Channel. After writing this, I'll check it out.
Yesterday, I got an invitation to go to Mexico to meet someone from a dating site. It could be something nice, and right now, there is nothing going on in America, so perhaps in about 3 weeks or a month I might take a trip down to Mexico to spend a week with her.
It blows my mind though that I could be spending all that money just to fly for a booty call. I mean, she seems like a nice person, but we haven't talked in like 4 months. I sent her a message, and she replied in about 5 hours and gave me the invitation.
Sure, I would like there to be more romantic chemistry, and as men, we need to always value and honor the woman's humanity. Just sometimes it is a little hard when she does not want to talk very frequently or in depth. She is still mostly pleasant whenever I can get her to say something.
The other option that I could do is return to Canada. One of the most guarded secrets of the world is that Canada has legalized private prostitution. This means that it is legal to exchange sex for money, but it is not legal to procure on a street corner or run a brothel. I interpret this to mean that escorts are acceptable, but streetwalkers are not. I learned about this first hand in 2013, and that has been the last time I have visited Canada. I spent the night in Montreal and had two escorts...one at night and one in the morning.
If I were going to do a trip like that to Canada, I would be faced with more expenses for sure. I can only imagine that if I were going to be getting a Canadian escort, it would be around 200 dollars an hour, but if I were going to Mexico, I would be paying more for the flight.
Also, I do not know the exact stipulations of going to Mexico. I could go to Mexico, but what if she does not have time to see me every day? That would be an enormous set back and could cost me an enormous amount of time and money.
I would be paying more to go to Canada, but we are talking about a lot more.
In other news, I have never been to Mexico, and I am quite curious about visiting there. I have never been to a Spanish speaking country, and I would like to see more. It could be a good experience all the same.
But if we are going to talk about prostitution, Mexico has full on legal prostitution as far as I know....so my degree at Wikipedia University taught me.
The real reason why I am so torn is I want to go out and meet someone new...professional or genuine, but in reality, it would be ideal if I could just meet someone here. I am not quite in the mood for giving up yet. However, if only this girl in Mexico had her visa to the United States....I could just fly her up here for a week. That would be the best thing to do.
Well, I have just had an idea for my next dating site search....but I won't rule out going to Mexico City...if we keep talking, and there is a display of chemistry I will honor her humanity and view it as a chance to have a nice romantic endeavor together.
I did a recent post...only finishing it moments ago...on dating African women, but like many writers and caffeine induced bloggers, I felt I did not do my best work. One of the reasons I started this blog was to share direct and honest stories about sexual encounters in an anonymous fashion, so that we could say that absolute 100% truth.
So there is another post on this blog about some of the cultural things you will experience when dating African women, but for now, I will just tell you about having sex with a girl from Malawi.
Malawi is a small landlocked nation in Southern Africa. Someone asked me where she was from. I said Malawi. He said "What is that?"
In China, the city of Guangzhou is famous for its African district, which has received the nickname "Chocolate City." While in Guangzhou one night, my friend had met a girl on the train, and they had exchanged contact information. We were both invited to her hotel room. The one who invited us was South African. She had a friend "her sistah" from Malawi. They spoke together in the Xhosa language, pronounced "Koh-sa."
The girl I went for was pretty good looking. If you first saw her, you might think she was a tad large, but overall, she had a very flat stomach. She had big breasts that would have turned you on, and she had a super shapely ass. I know many people think that his obvious for African girls, but I have noticed that many from East Africa...Kenyans, Ugandans, Ethiopians, and Eritreans...even Sudanese and Chadians do not always have the traditional bootylicious curves.
Now, we were four people in a hotel room, and I started getting frisky with the Malawian girl. The problem about four people in a hotel room is, if I want to do something physical with my date. Where do I send the other two? The South African was being very difficult, and my friend was having some trouble, but my girl was ready to go.....well, after a lot A LOT of teasing. She was being a rotten tease to be honest.
This is not her. Just Similar.
The only suitable answer was for the Malawian girl and I to do it in the shower. We weren't going to force our friends to leave, and it was easier for us to go into the shower than for our friends to wait for us in it......so we undressed and began the foreplay.
I couldn't comfortable during the blowjob while standing up, so I just sat down on the toilet. My friend later informed me that he could see the silhouette of the whole thing. I don't mind someone watching me get a blowjob...but on the toilet : / .
It took ages for me to get hard because as John Oliver warned us...not many people enjoy shower sex. I have had at least one good experience in the shower that was done well, but this was not one of them.
Finally, after I had my manhood ready, I bent this girl over the sink. I had been with a black girl before, but it never ceases to amaze me how you can just shove your dick inside all the way, and they don't even blink. I am used to Asian girls who can only handle the tip. I am just slamming her upright doggy style, and she isn't making a sound. I bet she wished she could read a magazine or play on her phone minus the shower steam.
After a few minutes of exploring the cavern ( :o) she made a suggestion.
"Want me to wash you?" She said.
I made a big mistake and said "ok."
I wasn't entirely sure what she meant, but she filled a bucket with soap and water and had me sit on the toilet once again. Yay...bad time to be king of the throne.
She proceeded to give me a handjob with soap and water, and for awhile it felt really good...but this is something that I have yet to master. As a teenager, I learned that masturbating with shampoo is useless. Someone once told me it would inflame your dick. I tried many times as I had no lube when I was 15, but the issue is that it just doesn't allow you to climax. You either can't feel it. It's too cold, or at the very least it agitates you, so you can't enjoy it. Agitate and inflame are two different things to me.
So she is just jerking away with her soapy water, and it is starting to feel not so good. The altitude was starting to fall. I am sitting on a toilet, after getting a blowjob on a toilet, and doing it on the sink, and desperately trying to cum.
I did not cum :( :/ :0 :X
All I can say is I will never try using soapy water as a lubricant again. It was her idea not mine.
Overall, the girl from Malawi was a great performer, minus the bubblebath. It was just that in the shower, it can be difficult to get the positions right, and as I mentioned something about black girl vaginas. V:
I am so horny now. I want to fly to Malawi and try this again. Maybe I can find a girl that will let me do it in the river...probably more enjoyable that on the toilet and over a sink.
Questions:
Anyone else have any good black girl sex stories?
Please share in the comment section below.
It is very difficult to generalize about the entirety of a continent. Furthermore, it is even more difficult to generalize about a continent, but only talk about the side that's below the Sahara Desert, yet at the same time I find myself encountering the same patterns and behaviors from black African women from Senegal all the way to South Africa.
I am always reminded that culture is real. If you spend time talking to many people from the same country you can almost predict their responses down to the individual words. I had two Latina girlfriends. They both broke up with me, and they used almost the same dialogue. One was from Chile and one was from Mexcio, yet it was almost the culture ran deep.
The same is true for African women, and once again to specify, when applying that term this post will center around Black African women from the African continent. Although, I will mention something about African heritage around the world at the end of the post, so stay tuned....ha, and by tuned, I mean engaged...please excuse me I drank like 4 diet cokes and a diet Mountain Dew before writing, so I am higher than a hornet.
African women are dominant. I notice this more so than from any other social or racial group. I find that Russian women are manipulative. Chinese women are submissive at first. Then, later on they become chaotic. Latinas are either hot tempered and jealous like fire, or like my two ex-girlfriends cold as ice and indifferent to the well-being of anyone else and all living things on the planet Earth.
After conducting between 1 - 2,000 interviews with Africans for graduate research, I encountered many instances of a simple interview turning into something romantic, and by reaching age 30, I had encountered several outside romantic (or just sexual) encounters with African women from various countries across the continent.
African culture pushes African women to be manipulative, but there is no subtlety that some other cultures might possess. I often always notice that when an African woman first begins to converse with you, she often makes an insulting or demeaning remark. Then, based on your response she is judging how much she can manipulate you.
If you are passive, she will walk all over you, try to make you send her money or buy her things if you are together in person. She will also perhaps insult your appearance and demand you change to her specifications.
If you respond in a hostile way, she will tell you to calm down and relax and then just try to be more indirect with her manipulations until the time is right, and she will become more blunt with her demands.
A man from Cameroon once told me, in my country the woman will always want to control the man, but she is not always able to do so. I have to agree.
Other characteristics I have noticed in African dating is that a woman will demand to be addressed in a certain way; she might demand that use a certain title or expression to greet her. Moreover, she will try to become very pushy with her demands for the future.
On the internet African women talk very frequently about marriage. Within minutes or even seconds of knowing someone, an African woman can bring up the possibility of marriage with someone outside of their continent.
Some of these are genuine 419 Scammers, but others are just individuals who are living a fantasy life, and are using dating sites to pass the time (a constant among women in the non-Western world). I say that it is a fantasy because it is almost impossible for foreigners to visit a small city in the center of the D.R. Congo or even Northeastern Nigeria. It is just not feasible, but we can't always take everything on the internet as serious or genuine material.
From my experience the relationships with African women are strongly centered on control. She is just looking for more ways to gain power in the relationship and become more dominant, and I mean dominant in the literal sense. The woman enjoys giving demands and orders, and has very high expectations that they will all be met. If you do not comply, she will either throw a temper tantrum or try to explain that you do not understand her culture, and you must obey to respect her (another constant from the non-Western world).
The part I wanted to mention at the end was that if culture is real these African similarities can be found in individuals all around the world. This is anecdotal, but I knew three woman from different countries. England. America, and the Congo. The woman from England was of Grenadian decent, and the American had parents from Nigeria. All three of them had the same body type, and they had almost identical personalities. If the accents and languages had been the same, you would have no idea that you were dealing with a different person.....and yes, they were all trying to be dominant and manipulative...not sure how well they succeeded, as none of them could ever hold down a long term Adult relationship.
This is why I would say that culture is real, and as my ex-girlfriend from Haiti told me. All blacks are Africans. I am not convinced I agree with 100% (Hi Barack), yet African culture has made its way into many African American and African European circles whether it is the popularity of dance or even music such as jazz...not to mention Nelson Mandela.
In a relationship with an African woman, expect someone trying to dominate you.
How do you attract women to you? (For straight men anyway) Stay with this post to the end, and I will reveal a secret.
There are many different approaches to dating, but do you ever find that no matter what you do, you always end up with the same result, that women always give you the same reaction, no matter what.
I had two roommates recently. One of them (from England) would attract women with ease, and would get them into bed with ease. It was almost as if he had some ability to make women feel comfortable, and make them in the mood for the bedroom.
We nicknamed my other roommate (from Iran) the marriage magnet. He was 36, older than both us, so that is maybe one reason why girls looked to him for marriage, but it was almost as if there was something else there. No matter what girl he was talking to, whether he met her on a dating site or met her face to face within a matter of hours the girls would be asking him about marriage, sometimes even proposing.
As for me, my pick up skills became rusty, and they just said nothing at all.
With my English roommate, I began to notice that there are certain vibes that we, as men, emit and give off to the world. Women perceive us in different ways. I asked my ex-girlfriend about him, and she explained that girls see him as a guy that is suitable for one night stands. Perhaps, it is his personality, or perhaps, it is the way in which he converses with women, but he gives off the impression that he is the kind of person suitable for quick sexual encounters.
With my Iranian roommate, there must be something as well that gives women the impression that he is suitable for marriage. He does not flaunt money around. We are all working class types, but women aren't attracted to money. They are attracted to success.
So how can you give off the vibe to make women desire you in the way that you want?
As I said my pick up game became rusty, so I had to think back over the years and look at all the times that I had success at picking up. The most sucessful years of my life were at age 23 and age 28.
At age 23, I was just so horny that I couldn't resist. It blew my mind that I literally spent all day every day on dating sites. I didn't do anything else, and I didn't want to do anything else, and I connected with a lot of different women in America.
At age 28, I was living in China, and I had just become more outgoing. Furthermore, I was approaching women by the hundreds, not only on the internet, but also at parties, met one in a night club, dating apps like Tinder and TanTan.
The secret I would like to share is...if you want to attract more women for sex, stop thinking. That's right. Stop paying attention. Just send off countless messages on dating sites. Send them quickly and do not think twice. I found that women respond much more frequently to the messages that I send off without a lot of emotion. Of course, always be constructive, never too lewd, and never unnecessarily destructive. You will just obliterate your chances if you start sending dick pics without warning.
But send your messages on rapid fire, and do not pay too much attention. Look at a girl's photo and give her a genuine compliment. Then, just keep going until you've reached your limit of likes, swipes, votes, and messages. Maybe women are attracted to the animal savage types. When you first start out, it is just about acquiring contacts anyway. You can develop your relationship with someone over time, but how can you do that if you never meet in the first place?
So after I write this blog post, I am going to go out and send 100 messages online.
I hope you do the same.
Be frank. Be genuine. Be strong.
Over the last few months I have noticed that there are lot of videos on YouTube now that are talking about how nice guys can change their behavior to get a girl. The channel I referenced in the last post was Essential Truth, which has cut up a lot of the Jordan Peterson lectures into segments on mostly men and women, which are loosely connected to dating. This post will include a video from Mantelligence.
I wish I had more videos like this when I was younger. I remember being 18,19, and 20 years old and having no clue on how to even initiate the attempt of getting laid or getting girlfriend.
To begin, I will preface this by saying the motivations for posts like these are only to help and to share previous experiences I had. I found that when I was a late teen and early 20 something there was no place to turn. Friends were useless when it came to advice because they did not understand dating and hooking up themselves. Looking to the internet was also useless because as soon as I asked a question on anything I was shot down and ridiculed by trolls for not knowing the answer in the first place. The chaotic years of the early New Millennium.
That gives us the reason on why I wanted to write a variety of posts on this subject. Let's first look at what not to do...Then, next let's look at what to do.
What Not to Do When Dating (for straight men anyway :p) :
1. Do Not Ask Women for Advice:
It is true. Women have a good sense of how other women think, yet they have no idea on how men think. They always try to reduce men down to one-dimensional entities. They say cheap remarks like guys only care about one thing, but most of their hook ups have probably resulted from them being horny and getting on Tinder. Men pursue women, and women aren't paying attention while men pursue them. Every suggestion I have ever had from a woman on dating has been useless. It's just small lines like "Be nice, but don't be too nice." and if you ask "Well, how exactly should I do that?" They will just stop the conversation because once again they don't understand what they are doing. They just do it. It's just Math professor being forced to explain simple addition and subtraction.
2. Do Not Ask Men for Advice:
Overwhelmingly, I found that men always say the same thing. "Be confident." That is the only real thing guys say as a form of advice. The problem is that is not a strategy that you can apply. It is not a thesis that can put into action. It is not something that can be tested.
In short, your friends are not going to be much help unless they give you clear and direct strategies, which is very rare, and asking for help on the internet via forums and chat groups is not always welcome.
So what do you do?
What to Do When Trying to get Laid or Find a Girlfriend:
1. Decide what you want.
I once asked someone if they could introduce me to a girl. The guy said he had many single friends, so why not? Then, he asked me "Well, what do you want?" I said I did not care. Anything is fine....that was the wrong answer. If I did not care, my plan had no ambition.
More importantly, you cannot invest your heart and soul into a single person. It is what you want, NOT who you want. No matter how hard you try, you cannot always convince a certain individual to be with you.
Make a clear objective.....Do you want a relationship? Long term or short term? Do you want a something leading to marriage? Do you want a friend with benefits? Do you want to just get laid with multiple partners on a regular basis? Do you want travel sex?
Choose one thing and make that your objective. It is not who you want. It is what you want. You can control what you want.
2. Frequency.
Want to know the name of a good dating site? ............Well, I won't say one. It doesn't matter which site you use because you need multiple dating platforms. Use at least 4-5 dating sites simultaneously to find what you want. No matter how good a dating site is and no matter how much your friend recommends it, you will have better odds of getting what you want if you are using 5 different dating platforms instead of one. This is the 21st Century. Let's network.
3. Tell yourself. You are not nice.
If you are reading this post, firstly thank you for your interest in this blog. Secondly, you probably are not nice. The video talks about nice guy mistakes, but people often confuse nice with agreeableness. I have to thank Dr. Jordan Peterson for pointing that out. If you are on the internet looking for strategies for getting laid, you probably are not that nice. You care about sex. Sometimes you use women. Sometimes you neglect her feelings and put yourself first....Hey, nobody is perfect. I am not.
Be less agreeable. This is easy on dating sites and text messages as there is no real life pressure. Do not let someone tell you what to do. Do not let someone boss you around if you do not like it. Do things your way. If someone says something that you do not like, say something. Agreeableness will most likely be viewed as weakness by a woman.
4. Network at Community Events (For Americans)
I am American, and almost the only ways I can meet regular partners is from community events. When I am in Asia it is all about the dating sites and the internet. In America it is about community events. I do not know what else to call them...but...not at work, not at school. When women are at work or going to class, they almost seem to be in a state of unease. For starters, there are other students or co-workers there that could judge her if they found out that you were having sex with her. This is greatly reduced at any social activity that is not related to work or a class.
I met one ex-girlfriend at a community club. One at a party. Two from a community theatre, the same one. and so on....Things like organizations, parties, volunteer work, social engagement, community activities. I find people are very relaxed when it is not work or school.
5. Get Ready for Trouble
If you are going to be using five different dating sites, and you are going to be approaching women at various events in your communities, get ready for negative comments, backlash, trolls, people trying to bring you down, other people trying to steal your thunder, and just straight up jerks who will be jealous if they see you talking to women.
They are wrong. Always know that. If your intention is only to meet a woman and have a good time with her (as well as her having a good time with you) other people are wrong to interrupt you. You are in the right. I confess I am not sure the best way to deal with trolls in face to face situations. On any online platform, I suggest blocking them immediately.
Be strong. Do not let anyone trying to hurt you get you down.
Good Luck and Go for the Gold.
Thank you for reading my list of 5 internet stratgies on getting laid.
If you have any feedback or comments, please drop one in the box below.
I am always interested in expanding these types of discussions and maybe we can all share
stories that have helped us in the past.
In the previous post, I mentioned that I had been toying with the idea of writing a book on sex in China. I also mentioned that I am severely scatterbrained. Thus, in only a short while I have decided that there was another project that I thought I should begin first.
There is a YouTube channel called Essential Truth that has taken a lot of the old Jordan Peterson lectures from the University of Toronto(as well as other venues he has appeared at) and cut them up into a set of segments that are designed to educate men on how to deal with women...such as the one included in this post.
I confess, I have not watched them all, as there are so many, but I feel there is still something lacking in the video clips I have seen.
----To begin, as far as I know, Jordan Peterson does not teach guys how to get laid. Most of what he advises is on how to find a long term partner for marriage or at least long term relations. If I recall correctly, he has even stated that men who go to bars looking to get laid...and don't care which woman they go home with...are psychopaths.
On the one hand, I commend Essential Truth for providing some advice for men. I know I sure would have liked it when I had been 18,19, or 20.
Now, let's talk about Asian women. Let's not beat around the bush. How does a guy get laid? And how to approach Asian women.
Let's seperate Asian women into two groups.
1= Girls Native to East Asia 2 = Girls of East Asian Decent Living in Other Countries
With Group 1=
1) Forget About Confidence.
I am so sick of all these dating self-help people talking about confidence. It is almost as if they know no other words with three syllables. Even Beavis and Butthead are confident with their "Hey Baby," lines. It doesn't mean anything. Confidence will not get you laid. Furthermore, in Asia all of those cultural perceptions are different. You can believe that you are a God, and it will not necessarily get you laid. Asian girls are much more moody and self-interested than the stereotypes show. It's not about how you feel. It is about how they feel.
2) Smoothness and Rapport
The Platinum Guide to Dating....a now defunct web book..used to state that dating, hooking up, and seduction consists of a three part method. 1/3 Confidence . 1/3 Smoothness. 1/3 Building a Rapport with your target. We have already covered confidence and how that is not the answer, but Smoothness and Building a Rapport are good ideas for all people, no matter where they come from. Get rid of the awkward behavior. Be aware of your facial expressions and your body language. Say things that make her gently laugh, but do not appear too silly or blunt. Be smooth. Talk smoothly and try to create some sexual energy with her.
AND LAST but NOT LEAST
3) Numbers
What these Essential Truth videos do not tell you is dating is mostly about numbers. As a late teen and early 20 something. I remember many times sitting at home wondering why I couldn't find a date for the weekend...well, maybe it was because I wasn't asking anyone out.
The law of averages applies to dating. The more people you approach. The more success you will have. While in America or Europe, it might be very awkward to approach strangers and ask for their contact information. It is not really that weird in Asia. Many times if you just say Hello to a girl in an East Asian country and ask for her contact info, she might even give it to you just because she does not want to offend you...or more likely she doesn't want to appear awkward or look bad herself. I would hesitate trying this in Hong Kong or Macau as the natives there are quite standoffish. If you are approaching Filipinas or Indonesians in HK or Macau. Go for it.
When I first arrived in Beijing, I was advised from a blogpost similar to this one that dating in China was like.....say Hi, how are you? to 100 people. Get 50 replies. Converse with 20. Meet up with 3. Sleep with 1. Repeat.
I don't calculate my own messages that rigorously, but it is the same idea. In Asia, you have to use the numbers to your advantage. It does not matter what you say. It does not matter what you wear (although, cologne might help. Smell is important). It does not matter what you have in your bank account. It is about asking 30-40 people to come over to your apartment every single night, and yes, every single night. So if you invite 200-250 people to your apartment or hotel room every week, there is usually going to be at least 1-3 horny Asian girls that will come over. No guarantee, but from previous experience first hand and knowing guys that do this too, it is real. I know one guy who spends 4-5 hours every day talking to girls, getting new contacts and inviting people over. 4-5 hours every day, and he gets laid more than I do.....Time, Effort, Hard Work, Numbers.
Other sites to meet Asian girls:
Tantan, Tinder, Badoo, Fdating.com, DateinAsia.com, and Wechat People Nearby.
So Numbers, Numbers, Numbers. Use the internet and approach people on the street to build an enormous amount of contacts. Then, send out 200-250 invites a week to come and meet you. It doesn't even have to be in your apartment or hotel for the first time. You can invite them for a drink first or out to dinner....the important part is that you send you build your contacts and send out invites.
2= How to Date Asian Girls in North America and Europe.....
1. Have a Big Dick
2. Have a lot of Money
3. Spend it on them
4. Who really cares? If you want to have sex with Asian women...spend the summer in Asia: Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, maybe South China or Vietnam and use your free time wisely, and you should get laid.
This blog has been gathering dust. A big shout out to anyone who has read it over the years.
About four years ago, I created this thing to anonymously share experiences...because I thought it would be something interesting. The last thing I wrote before this long hiatus was to talk about prostitution and the law.
I have spent almost five years in China now, so if we are going to be writing what we know, let's talk about Prositution in China...over the last few months, I've toyed with writing a book about prostitution in China. I get about 3 new ideas for books every single week, and maybe only 4 of them have ever turned into anything substantial. One of the largest reasons why I get held back is because I do not often write books...I am not a professional writer. Most of the work I have circulating around the internet is on the blogospehre. My writing isn't perfect. In fact, a lot of it is horseshit...but still there are some experiences to share all the same.
That brings us to this next point. As early as 2015, I began to wonder why prostitution is not more widely discussed in China. Nations like Thailand are notorious for sex tourism and have earned an international reputation for prostitution. I was wondering why it was not the case with China. Prostitution is widely practiced, very easily available, and it can even be low cost.
Over the years, I've started to learn the Chinese language...by that I mean Mandarin. My Cantonese is non-existent, and I began to keep in contact with a lot of my regular prostitutes. By that I mean, I am also including massage girls, anyone who gets a little bit kinky. Not only is prostitution widely available in China, but social media is much larger in the western world. People do not seem as afraid of adding someone to their page.
I am toying with the idea of releasing a series of blog posts on Prostitution in China. Since it would be in blog format, and I am a very scatterbrained individual, it might work more easily than in a traditionally published book-style presentation.
Even as early as tomorrow, perhaps I can compose a small chapter 1.
However, one of the motivations behind a project like this is not only to tell people some dirty secrets, and it is not only to recommend places where guys can secure contacts for personal use. Believe it or not, there is almost a sense of academic value...at least in intention with covering a subject like this.
If we are going to learn about China and about Asia, we can not censor ourselves. We need to present all sides of the equation. It would not be fair to dig deep when talking about Thailand, but leave things on the surface when it comes to China.
Look out for more updates on Prostitution in China.
06/28/2018
